Updated: Jan 6, 2019
The law of attraction says that "like attracts like." This means that people with a low frequency, people who are insecure and self-abandoning attract each other while people with a high frequency, people who love and value themselves also attract each other. People who are positive, open, secure, giving, caring, and kind to themselves and others are not attracted to people who are closed, negative, and needy of approval or attention.
All of us are magnets, and we attract exactly what we are. If you’re relationship with your partner isn’t going too great, if your work life or home life isn’t what you want it to be, the easiest thing you can do is look at self. What are you attracting and why? The people in our lives, the situations that surround us are all reflections of our internal environment. If your internal environment is negative and chaotic, desperate and needy, or fearful, then you will have a negative perspective. I think it’s hard sometimes to admit that we contribute to the worst versions of ourselves, but that’s where the power comes in. If you find that there’s something about yourself that is not serving you and that is attracting people, places, or things that are not serving you, then you have the control to change it. It’s all about the self-work that you put in.
How to change your magnet from negative to positive:
It is important to learn how to be present in your body rather than stuck in your mind avoiding your feelings.
Be open to learning about what your feelings are telling you instead of distracting yourself with various addictions and self-judgments.
Learn how to access a spiritual source of love. Tap into your true-self, rather than expecting someone else to be your higher power.
Learn how to take loving action on your own behalf instead of expecting others to do it for you. Remember, you are in control.
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